Straight Talk TNT

I, and many other ladies, would find your protocol refreshing. Some, however, would consider your apparent lack of desire insulting. It really depends on how long you’ve known your date and what her standards are. That said, it is not abnormal to end a first date with a kiss. Size up the level of mutual attraction and act accordingly. Helpful hint: it’s hard to go wrong with a sweet goodnight kiss and a phone call within three days. Good luck!

There is no set rule so don’t feel pressured. Best thing for a first date is be open and interested in getting to know the girl.

I’ve had many different dating experiences. If the boy has been respectful and I enjoyed his company, I don’t mind a simple goodnight kiss — and a call or text within five days (I leave room for nervousness about calling). But do I EXPECT a kiss? Not really. But, each girl is different. If you kiss her, be a gentleman. Don’t drool all over her, just a simple kiss for a first date.

I, personally, don’t like it. If a guy tries kissing me on a first date, it makes me feel like he does that with everyone — like I’m just any girl. If a date is going well, obviously you will go on another one and have the opportunity again.

First dates often end with a kiss, but first dates that have me longing for second dates are when I DON’T get kissed!

I’m not sure I’ve ever been on a date without a kiss. Heck, I’ve even kissed before the date! People do generally move faster these days, but being comfortable is what’s important. Honesty is always a good bet. If you want to kiss, express your thoughts and feelings. Getting consent is sexy!

A kiss is not expected but it can show your attraction and purpose. But don’t read too much into early kisses, they can be misleading! Best advice: If you like a girl, pay attention to what she responds to, then deliver that.

The tabloids stir the pot and create unnecessary expectations. I remember this one girl. We totally clicked upon introduction. I kept in touch with her and asked her to dinner the next week. The date was fabulous! We ate good food, had a few drinks, and a deeper-than-expected conversation. When I took her home, we kissed for a long time outside her house. Then she invited me to a party with her friends. Well, I didn’t keep up in the drinking department and embarrassingly fell asleep on her couch. That was end of that! I figured after a good first kiss on a good first date that we were well-connected, but we weren’t. Bottom line: be genuine, pay attention to cues — and have fun!