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From the source: Best holiday gifts for teens

Nov 18, 2009

DEAR STRAIGHT TALK: Will you run your “favorite gifts” column again this year? The grandparents and I have begun relying on it. — Joyce, Auburn, CA

DEAR JOYCE: Here are great ideas in all categories. I love Katelyn’s advice to avoid gifts that make children “addicted, lazy, stubborn, and friendless”. It’s insanity to supply a TV or computer to a teen’s bedroom or contribute to their video game collection. And if you can hold off buying a cell phone until high school, you’re my hero.

On another note, kids today tend to love and enjoy their families more than our generation did, so instead of gift cards, consider taking your ‘significant adolescent’ on a shopping date. Get your bonding in while you can!

See our new “favorite books and gifts” tab in the menu bar of this website for links to many of the panel’s selections.

Katelyn 14, Huntington Beach, CA Ask me a question

Personal wish: a golden locket to hold a picture of me and my best friend. Top gift ideas: college funds, outdoor equipment, family trips, gift certificates, sponsoring a child, hobby supplies. Avoid indoor things that make your child addicted, lazy, stubborn, and friendless. Worst gifts: school supplies; anything displaying “little kid” logos. Top books: Manga, Sold, Speak, Kite Runner, the Uglies.

Rose 22, Flagstaff, AZ Ask me a question

For someone working her way through college, shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, all make great gifts.

Maureen 17, Redding, CA Ask me a question

I’m asking for money contributions for a trip to Europe when I graduate and my mom is taking me to San Francisco for fun and shopping. My Grandpa once took me on a shopping spree and I enjoyed it because I also got to spend time with him. But if you’re at a loss, popular gift cards are: Old Navy, Macy’s, Pac Sun, Buckle, Best Buy, Blockbuster, Borders, restaurants, movie theaters, and iTunes.

Lennon 23, Fair Oaks, CA Ask me a question

Rent money, gas money. Books: Life Inc. and anything by David Foster Wallace.

Graham 16, Fair Oaks, CA Ask me a question

I play guitar so my list has headphones, an effects pedal, and an audio interface for recording.

Geoff 24, Redding, CA Ask me a question

iPhone remains the hot cell phone, but Goggle Android is coming on strong with real buttons rather than in-screen touch, making it much faster for typing. Cameras: Lately, it’s video, video, video. The Flip UltraHD Camcorder is about $200 and uploading to Facebook, Picasa, or U-Tube is effortless. For point-and-shoot, though, stick with Canon or Nikon. Best social tech games: Wii Sports Resort (lots of new games) and Rock Band (which has karaoke). Top board games: Carcassonne, Puerto Rico, Settlers of Catan (the big strategy game in college right now). Ultimate family card game: Apples to Apples. Other ideas: Gerber or Leatherman multi-tools, and “car kits” (containing flashlight, flares, multi-tool, first-aid kit, energy bars). Books of the year: Life Inc. and I Will Teach You to be Rich.

Scot 22, San Luis Obispo, CA Ask me a question

Best books: George R. R. Martin, Song of Ice and Fire.

Catherine 22, Amherst, MA Ask me a question

I love etsy.com an online store with variety like Amazon, but focused on crafts, a do-it-yourself ethic, and ability to shop locally. Favorite DVD: Up. Books: Raw: The Uncook Book, How It All Vegan! and Wood Nymph Seeks Centaur.

Katrina 16, Sand Springs, OK Ask me a question

I’m hoping for clothes and cosmetology-related items like hair products and sheers. Desired books: House of Night series.

Vanessa 21, Galt, CA Ask me a question

I find gift cards impersonal and prefer homemade gifts: quilted blankets, knitting, homemade candles, sweets, framed poetry or photos. But who couldn’t use a tank of gas, movie tickets, a meal, or a deposit to their savings? Pointless presents are the worst. Who really wants erasers, figurines, or a fancy alarm clock? For a friend, I bought a card and said dinner was on me. She absolutely loved it and we got to spend time together.

Editor’s Web Note: Choosing the right gift for someone is rarely easy. Probably half the gifts we purchase at holidays are discarded, re-gifted, or sit collecting dust. Our annual ‘best gifts’ column is straight from the source each year with everything from the hot tech gifts, top books and board games, and lots of individualized ideas that can trigger inspiration. I shop from it myself. — Lauren

Comments

  1. By Brie, 18, Panelist from Ashland, OR on 11/18/2009

    For Christmas I usually just ask for money. An iPod or gift cards are always good ideas, though, too. Many malls have gift cards that can be spent at any store in them, so that would be a good option. This is usually what my family gets me when they aren’t quite sure what to buy.

  2. By Laura Moore from Folsom, CA on 11/19/2009

    Dear Lauren:

    I don’t understand why you say that it would be “insanity” to give a computer as a gift for a teenagers’ bedroom.  Last Christmas our parents gave my brother and me our own computer with Internet service for our room and it’s been great.  We don’t have to fight our dad for the family computer anymore and we can play games on the computer in our room when we have friends over without disturbing the rest of the family.  Also, we don’t just use it for fun.  We also frequently use it for schoolwork.  It’s very common these days for teenagers to have their own computer in their room, and I don’t see anything “insane” about it.

    Laura

  3. By Liva, 20, Panelist from Santa Barbara, CA on 11/23/2009

    Some of the things I’m hoping for this year are these really awesome shoes made out of recycled rubber and hemp, some specific perfumes, a shockproof digital camera (since I’ve managed to drop and break nearly every digital camera I’ve had…) and gift cards to various stores so that I can get new clothes, as well as various books.
    It can never hurt to ask your teen what they’d like for Christmas. My parents have been asking what I’d like since I was a kid; they’d rather get me things that I want and need than something I’m not going to use. Especially for college students, we’d rather have something we really need then something silly we’ll never use. My grandmother always asks my mother for gift suggestions for us, and then my mother passes along whatever we’ve told her, it works out quite well.

  4. By Jack Bush from New York on 06/27/2010

    I’m already into A Song of Ice and Fire but what are some other interesting books by George R.R. Martin?

  5. By Lauren Forcella on 06/27/2010

    Dear Jack,

    Here’s a link to the George R.R. Martin page on Amazon. There are a lot more books and they have reviews. http://amzn.to/d5Xp3Y

    Other than that, I don’t have any panel feedback except for on Ice & Fire series.

    I hope that helps!

    Do you have any favorite books you can recommend for our list?

    Lauren

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