Men & women hold hands for many reasons
Nov 3Dear Straight Talk: Please help me because I don’t know who to talk about this. I was visiting my cousins in L.A. and we went to a restaurant and I saw my best friend’s dad there holding hands with a woman who is not his wife. I am sure it was him, because we made eye contact—and he let go of the woman’s hands at the same time. After that, we went to our table and I didn’t see them again. I told my relatives and we got into a big argument over what the best course of action should be. What do you think I should do? Shouldn’t I tell my friend that her dad is cheating?—Saw it with my own eyes
Dear Saw it: Saw what with your own eyes? Men and women hold hands for many reasons. How do you know this wasn’t his sister, his cousin, a treasured friend, a bereaved aunt? And how do you know with certainty that it was your friend’s dad? Many people look alike, especially in diffused lighting. Even if your perceptions are correct, it is none of your business. Drop it.
